I'm 46, and I'm just gonna say it ~ I'm not a fan of the aging process. What I'm about to describe may sound superficial and vain. I'm OK with that, one of the benefits of being "mature" is caring a little less about what others think, at least about certain things.
- I hate the little lines around my lips. I'm not really happy about any of the lines on my face but the ones here especially bug me. I would trade these for cellulite someplace else. S0 yes, I hate them a lot.
- I am very conscious of what appears to be a problem remembering names and various other details. Yikes. This one actually scares me a little.
- My knees are beginning to hurt sometimes. Especially when I do lunges (which I hate) and squats (which I need to continue doing).
- Wearing reading glasses is not fun. Needing them to even set the temperature on the oven is actually distressing.
- Losing these last extra pounds seems harder than ever.
- I am sure there are a few more things, but I cant remember what they are right now.
A few positives about being "mature", or "wise" as some say...
- The fact that I'm getting older is a good thing...it means I'm still aging.
- Even as I'm less confident in superficial areas, I am more confident in areas that actutually matter.
- I care less about pleasing others and now just simply care more for others.
- Although this last 20 pounds is the hardest to lose, I weigh much less at 46 than I did at 36; which means I am healthier...despite the cry of my knees, eyes and mind.
- In a few vulnerable confessions to others my age, I have discovered I am not alone in not
remembering stuff. If I could remember who shared this, I would thank them.
- When I smile, the lines I hate most almost disappear. Not completely, but enough that I smile more.
I've been writing over here:
God Places Another Soldier in the Prayer Box
Zach (My 16 Year Old) was a Guest Blogger
The Power of the Presentation
I remember being 46 - I think! It was several years ago!!
Great post Sheri!
Posted by: Stan Buck | April 13, 2011 at 12:09 AM
:) I think you are beautiful! I love you.
Posted by: Myah | April 13, 2011 at 07:16 AM
Sheri - ever since I've known you, I've thought you're beautiful - and I honestly can't remember what 'size' you used to be. It's the radiance on the inside that makes others not even notice the lines and bumps and bulges on the outside of any of us. "Arise and shine, for the glory of the Lord has risen upon you"
Posted by: Joan Null | April 13, 2011 at 08:54 AM
You are by far the most attractive woman I know! ;>)
Posted by: Kevin | April 13, 2011 at 02:13 PM
You are beautiful, and I LOVE everything about you! God did an aweosome job when he made you!!!
XO
Posted by: Linda Barnes | April 13, 2011 at 06:43 PM
Thank you everyone for your very nice words and compliments....the fact that no one mentioned that my mind is fine has me concerned though. :D
I remember turning 30 and 40 and remember thinking that there wasnt much more I could have wanted at those points in my life...Kevin had a good job, our kids were healthy, we had a home, reliable vehicles, insurance and so much more. I believe I am on that track for my 50th...in 4 years.
These lines, eye problems, and memory issues are superficial in the big scheme of this life...I knew it when I wrote it...superficial. Still...
Posted by: Sheri | April 13, 2011 at 08:33 PM
You can thank me for being the person that has a hard time sometimes remembering names, dates, etc!!!!!! I remember VERY CLEARLY when we talked that morning about it because it was a very short chat before I had to go to work but when you brought it up, it IMMEDIATELY made me feel better knowing that I was not alone in my forgetfullness!!! I think we actually laughed about it because we knew we were in it together!!
Posted by: Barb | April 17, 2011 at 02:14 PM