My kids taught me how to play Guitar Hero last weekend. We have had this game in our house for about a year and I have never played. No time, not that appealing to me...you know how it is.
They asked me to go play and promised they would teach me - so off we went. I chose my "person" and my "guitar" and next thing I knew I was trying to hit the "strings" as the lights passed over the rings. It wasn't working. "Mom, you have to strum too!!" How I kept forgetting this I do not know, but all of the sudden the kids would yell out "Mom, Strum!!" The whole eye-hand coordination thing was quite the brain enriching experience.
I was feeling quite intense as I kept up with Sweet Child of Mine; my fingers were hurting, my heart was racing when one of them tried to talk to me. Whoa - do you not see I cannot talk or listen right now! Courtney, my 15 year old immediately sensed a "teachable moment".
"So mom, this is how it feels when you come in and start talking to me while I'm playing Guitar Hero and then you tell me to look at you when you are talking."
Oh. I had no idea.
So next time I need to talk to her while she is engaged in what I thought was rather mindless entertainment, I am planning on using the same respect in which I expect from her. Maybe I'll just say, "When you're done with this song, come see me."
It was good to step into their world, I probably need to do it more often and in more areas; it just may cause them to think less often "My mom just doesn't understand".
Next, I may just tackle the IM thing. Just kidding.
Do you do things to keep a foot in your kids world? If you'd like to share, post a comment!
P.S. I did score an 85% the other night with a 55 note streak. :0)

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